“My mum’s a soldier”: how young men enacting violent and misogynistic masculinities can still love and respect their mothers
By IOE Blog Editor, on 31 July 2025

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31 July 2025
By Jon Swain and Brendan King
In this post we report on an ethnographic study exploring the lives of a group of young Black, Asian and minority ethnic (‘BAME’) men in London (King and Swain 2025), drawing on our wider work on masculinities (King 2022; King and Swain 2022). We highlight the often-contrasting roles and power dynamics experienced by these men between ‘the street’ and the home. In particular, we note how much they loved and respected their mothers, set against the derogatory attitudes they often appeared to hold towards other women. Our research suggests that policy is missing a trick in not better recognising, and working with, these mothers in countering the pull of violent and misogynistic street cultures. (more…)
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